It'd be real nice if I could pick which raiders I want, instead of praying that the low-health guy falls over with the next shot due to wounding rather than killing.
If I see a good crafter or grower or chef, I'd really like to single them out for kidnapping as opposed to hoping to down them.
I had a Mod with a "Stun" Rifle like Elephants get shoot with.
have you looked for "stun gun" mods, "less lethal" or "taser/tazer" mods?
Here are three (one of which I'm rehosting, read the instructions above the download link for it or it won't work). The first two are for A14, but just need a version increase.
3DG's Electroshock Pack (https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=22008.0)
DeliveryService's Electric Baton (https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=24990.msg255609)
Skullywag's LessLethal Mod (https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=13992.msg256067#msg256067)