More auto-pause or notification options

[Phidaissi]

I play on 4k so I often don't notice notification immediately unless they auto-pause, and there are currently no options to make the notifications larger or more obnoxious to counter this.

What would be easy and fairly universally useful would be more options for auto-pause.
A particular pet-peeve of mine is that colonists in the earlier game need to be set to flee so they don't arbitrarily decide to fight a rhino or bear on their own. But because they are set to flee they won't fight back against a wolf or even a rat.

I've lost colonists because they didn't fight back and I didn't know they were being attacked.

Can we have more options for auto-pausing? On urgent letter, on raid, on event, on colonist attacked, etc. A few additional options on this would be fairly minor addition that lets us more easily work around issues that are much harder or longer to address (such as the tiny notification not being easy to notice on high res).