I made a post on the suggestion forum about how apparel should show what layer it goes on, because right now you get stuck playing the process of elimination to see what goes with what. Throw in a few apparel mods and the possible outfit combinations goes into the tens of thousands. Tynan commented on the thread, saying how it was a good suggestion.
I'm hoping when 1.0 drops that we will get a lot of these little QoL improvements, like hidden or confusing information (rest and tiredness, anyone?)
I would suggest that you maybe try to post this in the suggestions forum. Be concise, and show examples of your problems you have in game, like you've done on this post. Be careful not to post too big a list of all kinds of things you think should be fixed, as it makes it harder for anyone else to continue any discussions on specifics if there are 100 other things listed.
Be concise, to the point, show an example, and post in clear and simple terms, and with a bit of luck, hopefully someone from Ludeon, or even Tynan himself, will read it and something will change for 1.0.
It also helps if you could assume, with a high probability, that these QoL improvements will help everyone and not just power users, and aren't too crazy or complex, that they then have a higher chance of being implemented into the core game. Or at least inspire a modder to make your dreams come true!