Allow disabling auto-refill for campfires, torch lamps, etc

[asanbr]

Since we don't recover any wood from deconstructing torch lamps, it would be nice to let them burn until they run out of fuel, but without refueling them automatically (in cases where this is what I want).

Currently this is not an option and the only way around it I found was to forbid all the wood, which has other bad consequences.

[LWM]

I will see if I can make this happen as a mod.